Our theme for the July PopClogs bootcamp is “Shine Bright Like a Diamond.” So I’m working on sparkling.
Part of my approach to this bout of unemployment is to think of it as an opportunity for a fresh start. I’m thinking big-picture here. What would make me shiny? What, ultimately, do I want?
- I want to be healthy.
- I want to be present in the moment, and fully appreciative of the moment.
- I want to feel more grateful.
- I want to feel more in control of my day-to-day life.
- I want to do work that I find interesting, and that pays well enough that we can afford the things we need – and some of the things we want.
- I want to spend more time with my family.
- I want to create a support network of friends and colleagues.
- I want to fill my free time with fun, interesting experiences and activities.
- I want to continue to improve our financial picture, so that we can afford the big expenses we’ve been saving towards and so that our future is more secure than our past has been.
- I want to live somewhere that fits us better than our current location does.
So…that’s kind of a tall order. This month, I’m starting small.
Focus on fitness
For so long, my body has been taking a back seat to my bank account. From here on out, fitness is a priority.
I’ve been allowing Anya to beg off of meditation, and getting frustrated with her when she doesn’t participate in the sessions I insist upon. I don’t want meditation to be a chore, nor do I want it to be a point of stress. I want it to be a special time together for us. And I want us to both learn how to better manage our negative feelings and be more in the moment as a result of our practice.
Streamline household systems
Declutter and clean, so that it will be easier to maintain that clean. Automate/schedule routine tasks so that nothing gets overlooked. I’ve already started on this, but there’s definitely room for improvement.
This is the perfect opportunity to wean us off the boxed crap and start eating better, more healthful food. Menu planning. Strategic shopping. Established meal times and meal routines. These things need to happen.
Continue to pursue balance
It would be easy for me to fill my days with low-paying freelance gigs and ignore my needs and my family’s needs. Instead, I will strive to establish a balance. Work some and play some and exercise some and clean some, learn some and read some and sing some and dance some. Talk, and sit quietly. Spend time with each child and spend time with my partner. And when it’s all done, rest some.
Once I get those things down, I will work on the rest.